速查表 · 闲聊全流程
① 开场(破冰)
Nice weather, huh?天气不错哈?
How's it going?最近怎么样?
Busy day, huh?今天挺忙的哈?
② 维持(一问一答一回抛)
How about you?你呢?(答完必加这句)
Really? That's cool!接话,让对方继续
Me too!找共同点
③ 收尾(体面离场)
Anyway, it was nice talking to you!
Anyway 是"要收了"的信号
I'd better get going.我得走了
Have a good one!回头见!(万能告别)
流程图
- 开场(天气/场合)→ 维持(追问 + Me too + How about you?)→ 收尾(Anyway... → I'd better get going → Have a good one!)
- 冷场不可怕——微笑 + 一句 So...(那个……)+ 换话题(爱好/周末计划)
- 听不懂随时用救命短语,没人会介意